The Introduction: When Cigars First Chose Me

I didn’t enter this world with extensive knowledge. I came in with curiosity and honestly, a bit of anxiety.  

How do you cut a cigar?  

How do you light it?  

What do you pair it with?  

I wanted to learn, but I also didn’t want to appear lost. Back then, it wasn’t just about the cigar; it was about the room, the energy, the laughter, and the feeling of being seen. I won’t lie, part of it was about the attention, the gaze, and the flirtation. There was a certain power in holding a cigar, especially as a woman. I liked what it ignited within me. For a while, that was enough.  

One thing about the cigar community is that they welcomed me. Even the seasoned enthusiasts who had been smoking long before I stepped in didn’t hold back. They pulled up a chair, offered suggestions, and shared the moment. That kind of energy made me want to stay.  

Cigarqueen_SweetLips was born out of my love for flavored and infused cigars. That’s how it all started sweet tips, flavored notes, and those beginner-friendly vibes that felt playful and feminine. But, like anything real, I evolved.  

The more I smoked, the more I explored. Eventually, I no longer craved the flavored sticks; I wanted depth. I sought premium, bold, and complex cigars. With that shift came a new perspective: the cigar community expanded for me. I began to appreciate the art, craftsmanship, and legacy behind each leaf. It wasn’t just about what I was smoking anymore; it was about who I was becoming while enjoying it.  

I still honor where I started because flavored cigars introduced me to this lifestyle. But the woman I am now? She burns differently. She has grown, and she is grounded in something deeper.